Heres a tip from Green Amen
If the points of your sit bones are hurting just ride more, it'll stop eventually.
If literally anything else is hurting (tailbone, soft tissue, etc) your saddle is positioned wrong or just straight up doesn't fit you.If you ride more use Vaseline or a good lube. Front and back.Whatever you prefer.Dont be put off.You will find satisfaction in the long run?